Do make a habit of listening to him,
instead of talking about yourself all of the time.
Do understand that he has a life, and that if he is focused on
you twenty-four hours a day you are probably dealing with someone
who is mentally unbalanced.
Do give him his space when he needs it and don't take little silences
personally.
Do treat yourself with respect so that he will respect you.
Do leave loving words and emoticons expressing your adoration for
him every day.
Don't express jealousy or insecurity by being jealous or clingy.
Don't force him to express himself or make choices by using manipulation,
deadlines or ultimatums.
Don't use negative or critical language.
Don't dwell on his past mistakes
Don't call or instant message him repeatedly if you have not heard
from him for a while. |