- You're not talking about the weather all the time.
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Neither of you has mentioned an ex lover once.
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Neither of you has answered your cell phone or tried to check
messages.
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Neither of you is drunk.
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She is not trying to make you dress up in women's clothing.
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He is not asking you if you'd like to have a threesome with
the waitress.
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She has not told you that you have a problem with your mother.
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He has not told you that you are a feminist.
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You're not just sitting there together watching T.V. instead
of having sex.
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You're having sex!