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work for you if:
- You trust your partner completely.
- You like to spend time alone.
- You have many outside hobbies and interests
- You’re like a sexual camel and can go months, if not years,
without sexual intimacy.
- You can afford high speed Internet, are computer literate and
can operate a web cam.
- You love to talk on the phone.
- You know how to turn your lover on over the phone and the Internet.
- You don't feel lonely when out with other couples.
- You have the confidence that you can handle this relationship
well, no matter what comes your way (including a possible separation.)
- You know how to keep busy.
- You have supportive friends.
A long distance relationship will not work if:
- You or the other partner has a history of alcoholism or addiction.
Often infidelity and unpredictability accompany these issues leading
to a long-distance catastrophe.
- You or the other partner has a history of manic depression or
depression. Once again infidelity and unpredictability accompany
these disorders.
- You are the third wheel in a love triangle. If he or she is
off to see an ex, a wife or children you might have a problem
on your hands.
- You are an emotionally insecure codependent who suffers from
anxiety if he or she goes to the store, never mind a long ways
away.
- You have a history of jealousy or suspicion.
- You need a hug every day.
- You need sex every day.
- You do not write good letters or don't like communicating via
email or yahoo messenger.
- You don't communicate well on the phone.
- You can't afford a computer or long distance calls.
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