It is a myth that women don't cheat.
The twenty-first century is a tit for tat place when it comes to
sexual equality and that includes doing to a man what a man might
do to a woman if a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity just happened
to present itself.
It might help you to determine first if she is actually the "cheating
type." Did she cheat on her husband to be with you? Is she
a free spirit? Does she drink too much? Were her parents divorced
because of an infidelity? Studies have shown that cheating is more
likely in women who have cheated before or who grew up in a household
with infidelity or alcoholism.
If you really don't want her to stray, your key is to put as much
energy into the relationship as you did in the beginning. Many women
cheat because they feel taken for granted and secretly want to punish
their partner for being lazy when it comes to communication, making
promises or turning them on. If you want her to stay and not stray,
you need to put some effort into the relationship every day.
Another way to keep her faithful is to show her how much you adore.
Send her gifts, poems, love messages, e-cards. Let her know she
is a goddess. Suggest new things to do or promise to do interesting
things together when you get back. If she knows that material and
spiritual riches combined with fun and sexual excitement lay ahead,
she will be more willing to wait for you rather than sabotage it
all by having an affair with another man.
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